Life is a series of chapters, each one offering a fresh start, a chance to rewrite our stories, and a canvas to paint our dreams. As we navigate the twists and turns of our journey, there comes a time when we stand at the crossroads, yearning for a new beginning. Starting afresh isn’t just about turning a new page; it’s about opening a whole new book, where the pages are blank and waiting for our pen to make its mark.
I go to a point in my life where I felt lost, confused, and lacking vision or purpose. I don’t know if it was about loss (I lost a loved one then) or just a period of “writer’s block”. In the past 6 years, I have gone through a divorce, lost a sister, been a single parent, lost my blog, been almost homeless, etc. Literally, I have gone through some of the most difficult stages in my life. Have you ever gone through a similar stage?
I realized that I started to lose interest in blogging and content creation generally. Everything felt meaningless, also, considering that I wasn’t earning money blogging either… so I shut down mentally.
The idea of starting afresh carries a sense of hope, a glimmer of opportunity that beckons us to leave behind what no longer serves us and step into the unknown with a heart full of courage. This is how I have felt for the past 15 months. It’s a choice to shed the baggage of the past, release the weight of regrets, and free myself from the limitations that I’ve placed upon my own potential.
But where do I begin? How do I summon the strength to embrace the unknown with open arms? The answer lies within our perspective. Starting afresh isn’t just an external change; it’s a shift in mindset, a commitment to self-discovery, and a promise to honor our authentic selves.
I started out by rebranding and changing my name on my social media sites from “itswinifredben” to “iamchidaallu”. I also did a little intro on IG to explain what I am and you can find something similar on my About page. There have been many nights of worry and concern about where and how to start, and over time, I have found strength in acknowledging some of the benefits of starting afresh.
5 Benefits of Starting Afresh:
- Embracing Change
Life’s most beautiful moments often emerge from the unexpected. To start afresh, we must relinquish our fear of change and befriend it instead. Change is the catalyst that propels us toward growth and self-improvement. Just as the caterpillar transforms into a butterfly, we too have the power to metamorphose into something extraordinary. A lot has changed for me since 2021 and I will keep you posted in subsequent blog posts, I hope you stay tuned.
- Letting Go
Starting afresh requires us to let go of what no longer aligns with our journey. Let go of toxic relationships, self-doubt, and outdated beliefs that hinder your progress. Clinging to the past only hampers our ability to savor the present and anticipate the future. I for one let go of some ideologies like, “blogging doesn’t pay in 2023”, the overflooding of creatives in the influencer world, the fear of failure, etc. I chose to focus on what I love doing the most, which is, blogging.
- Discovering Passions
As we begin anew, we’re granted the privilege of rediscovering ourselves. What are your passions? What lights your soul on fire? Starting afresh means rekindling these passions and incorporating them into your journey. Whether it’s painting, hiking, cooking, or writing, let your passions guide you toward a more fulfilling life. For me, I kind of discovered a re-kindled interest in fitness, relationships, and my faith walk. Hence, I intend to invest my energy in those.
- Cultivating Resilience
Starting afresh isn’t always easy. There will be challenges and setbacks, but these are the threads that weave the fabric of resilience. Embrace setbacks as stepping stones, allowing them to build your strength and character. For instance, I know a lot of people will think I am crazy or confused about continuing or starting a blog in 2023 when everyone is going crazy on Instagram and TikTok, but I really don’t care. What matters most is that I love what I’m doing and you should do the same. Do what makes you happy, so long as it doesn’t hurt you or others. With resilience, you’ll weather any storm that comes your way.
- Writing Your Story
As we embark on this journey of new beginnings, remember that you hold the pen to your story. The pages ahead are blank, waiting for your unique experiences, emotions, and triumphs to be etched upon them. Every decision you make, and every step you take, contributes to the masterpiece you are crafting. So here is to me filling this blog with my stories and I hope you come on this journey with me.
Conclusion
Starting afresh is a gift we give ourselves—a gift of courage, hope, and boundless potential. It’s an affirmation that life is an ever-evolving adventure, and with each fresh start, we embrace the magic of transformation. So, let’s take that leap, spread our wings, and soar into the beauty of the unknown. After all, every ending is simply the prologue to a remarkable new beginning.
As you start afresh, remember that every beginning carries the promise of something beautiful. May this blog post inspire you to embark on your journey with renewed determination and an open heart.
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