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  • Welcome to My World: Faith, Fashion, and the Journey of a Single Mum

    Welcome to My World: Faith, Fashion, and the Journey of a Single Mum

    👋🏽 Welcome, Lovely!

    Hello and welcome to my blog! I’m Chidalu, a single mum navigating life with faith, fashion, and a touch of lipstick. If you’re a woman trying to balance the single mum lifestyle (motherhood & singlehood) and self-care, this space is just for you.


    🌿 Why I Started This Blog

    Motherhood is beautiful, but let’s be honest—it’s not always easy. Add being a single mum into the mix, and things can get really pretty fast. But one thing I’ve learned is this:

    You can still be soft, stylish, and strong—through Christ and community.

    This blog is my open letter to every woman who’s ever wondered if she’s doing enough, being enough, or dreaming too big. I’m here to say: You are not alone, and yes, you can live a full and fabulous single mum life, even in the trenches of motherhood.


    đź’„ What You’ll Find Here

    This blog is an extension of my life—and that means a little bit of everything that lights me up and lifts me higher. Expect posts on:

    ✝️ Faith & Encouragement

    • Devotionals for busy mums

    • Faith in the waiting seasons

    • How I include God in my everyday routines

    đź‘— Fashion for Mums

    • Affordable, modest, and stylish outfit ideas

    • Wardrobe basics every single mum needs

    • How to dress up when you’re feeling down

    💅🏽 Beauty Tips

    • Easy makeup routines for busy mornings

    • Budget-friendly skincare finds

    • “Feel good” beauty practices for the soul

    🏠 Lifestyle & Motherhood

    • Single mum life hacks

    • Managing your home and heart

    • Routines, rhythm, and grace-filled productivity


    💬 Let’s Be Real—And Do Life Together

    If there’s one thing I want this blog to be, it’s real. The single mum lifestyle can be a rollercoaster. Hence, I won’t pretend to have it all together, but I will show up honestly—with stories, struggles, and small victories that remind you: you’ve got this, and God’s got you.

    🛎️ Subscribe for weekly posts filled with encouragement, style inspiration, and tips for living your best mum life—on purpose.


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  • 5 Things No One Prepares You For As A Single Parent In Nigeria

    5 Things No One Prepares You For As A Single Parent In Nigeria

    Being a single parent was not something I envisioned for my life, but it happened to me nonetheless. In this video, I shared five things no one prepares you for as a single parent… in Nigeria.

    Disclaimer: These are facts based on my personal experiences and observations of society. Other people’s stories might be different, so feel free to share in the comments.

    Find me on Social Media: @iamchidaallu
    Blog: iamchidaallu.wordpress.com

  • How To Make Liquid Black Soap for Acne-prone Skin

    How To Make Liquid Black Soap for Acne-prone Skin

    Skin Benefits of the Active Ingredients:

    • African Black Soap: This soap is made from plants and herbs, and is known for a variety of benefits to the skin. It Improves skin tone, reduces inflammation, and deeply cleanses. In general, African black soap can be used by all skin types but could irritate dry or sensitive skin. Hence it is advised to add humectants like honey/glycerine, to boost its moisture content and also moisturize skin immediately after use. It Can be used daily but may need to be slowly incorporated into a routine.
    • Salicylic Acid: this is a beta-hydroxy acid. It is a chemical exfoliant known for reducing acne by exfoliating the skin and keeping pores clear. Salicylic acid penetrates your skin and works to dissolve the dead skin cells clogging your pores. It can take several weeks of use for you to see its full effect.
    • Sugar (Glycolic Acid): Sugar is a natural source of glycolic acid, which helps to exfoliate the skin and is used in many scrub recipes. It is also a natural humectant meaning it draws moisture from its surroundings into the skin and helps to retain any moisture the skin absorbs. Products that contain sugar and its derivatives actually hydrate the complexion and help to keep moisture in the skin leaving it smooth and plump.
    • Neem: Neem is able to balance oil production, heal wounds, stimulate collagen formation, reduce post-acne scars, and minimize skin inflammation. It works as a natural alternative to heal the skin tissue from within and simultaneously reduces hyperpigmentation and scars.
    • Tumeric:
    • Cinnamon
    • red sandalwood: It helps fade dark spots, hyperpigmentation, and blemishes, resulting in a more even-toned complexion. It possesses anti-inflammatory properties that can help soothe various skin conditions, including eczema, psoriasis, and dermatitis. It calms skin irritation and reduces redness.
    • Brown sandalwood:
    • Shea Butter
    • Brightening oils
  • DIY Detoxifying and Strengthening Hair Mask

    DIY Detoxifying and Strengthening Hair Mask

    Hair masks have proven over time to promote hair growth and length retention, moisturize, strengthen, and improve fullness. As a mum of a 7-year-old with type-3-hair hair, that has suffered from stunted growth, I have decided to be intentional with the type of masks I use on my child’s hair. Recently, I started experimenting with DIY masks and hair treatments to boost the health of my daughters’s hair and I must say that I am impressed with the results.

    Watch the video to see how I prepared my daughter’s hair mask.

    For this hair mask recipe, I used only four powders and water, and below are their benefits:

    Benefits of bentonite Clay for Hair

    Bentonite clay is a fine-textured natural clay made from old volcanic ash. Some people use it to treat rashes or acne, or for other medical or aesthetic purposes. Bentonite Clay has been used for thousands of years to eliminate toxins and oils from the body as well as pollutants from the skin. Additionally, studies have indicated that it has some positive effects on natural hair, can promote hair development, and can keep the scalp healthy. Here are some benefits of using bentonite clay for healthy hair.

    • promotes hair great
    • conditions hair and reduces frizz
    • adds shine
    • helps define curls
    • removes dandruff
    • deep cleanses the hair by drawing out toxins, chemicals, and buildups from the hair when you wash the clay off

    Essential nutrients in bentonite clay: sodium, calcium, potassium, Magnesium, Silica, Sodium, Copper, and Iron.

    Benefits of Amla for Hair

    Amla, also known as the Indian Gooseberry, is a small, rounded fruit that grows on a tree of the same name. Despite its astringent and sour flavor, this fruit is incredibly nutritious. Amla powder is created by crushing the leaves of this tree and has been used in Ayurvedic medicine to treat a variety of illnesses in addition to being used in food. The powder is also known to have anti-inflammatory effects, which has led to its use in skin and hair care products. Amla is regarded by Ayurveda as a “divine medicine,” and is advised for restoring the luster and health of your hair.  It is said that applying amla powder to hair will make it healthier, shinier, and darker.

    Here are some benefits of Amla for hair:

    • Promotes hair growth and thickness
    • Adds shine, luster, and bounce
    • Prevents premature greying of hair
    • darkens hair.

    Essential nutrients in Amla: alkaloids, flavonoids, amino acids, 5alpha reductase (enzymes), Vitamin C, and polyphenols (compounds).

    Benefits of rice powder/flour for Hair

    There are significant amounts of para-aminobenzoic acid, ferulic acid, and allantoin in a simple bowl of rice flour. These components provide it with potent qualities that make it very effective to use to maintain and repair beautiful skin and hair.

    • exfoliates the scalp, and gets rid of dirt and oil build-up.
    • eliminates the existence of fungal infections and germs due to its antiseptic properties.
    • strengthens hair, thereby reducing breakage.

    Essential nutrients in rice powder: para-aminobenzoic acid, ferulic acid, allantoin, folic acid (vitamin B9), niacin (vitamin B3), magnesium, and inositol (vitamin B8)

    Benefits of Henna for Hair

    Henna is one of the components of hair care that Indians introduced to the rest of the globe. For many years, if not centuries, Indian women have used henna to take care of their thick hair. Henna ought to be your go-to component if you wish to get rid of your grey hair naturally but are allergic to chemical colors. It is abundant in tannins, a plant ingredient that gives tea its deep coloring. But henna has advantages that go beyond preventing death. Here are some benefits of henna for hair:

    • treats dandruff
    • helps fight hair loss-related issues
    • reduces premature greying of hair by protecting natural hair color
    • softens hair due to the presence of vitamin E
    • helps to rectify split ends and dryness
    • promotes the growth of long thick tresses

    Essential nutrients in henna: Hennea is rich in  proteins, antioxidants, and vitamin E

    Shop Botanical Herbs and powders here

    Bentonite Clay (here), rice powder (here), Amla (here), and henna (here)

    In conclusion, Hair masks are best applied once or twice a month depending on your hair type. Always moisturize and hydrate hair with quality products to maintain an overall healthy tress.

  • How To Make Rice Water Toner That Can Last 3 Months!

    How To Make Rice Water Toner That Can Last 3 Months!

    Some civilizations have used rice water for generations due to its potential advantages for skin and hair. Rice water is the starchy water left over after washing or cooking rice. Based on my own personal experience, I have been using rice water for a few years as a face toner, and so far, I haven’t had any negative effects.

    Although there is scant scientific evidence to back up some of these claims, many individuals think that rice water may provide the following possible facial benefits:

    Benefits of Rice Water for Skin:

    1. Skin Brightening: Rice water is frequently commended for its capacity to illuminate the complexion and brighten the skin. It has nutrients like vitamins, minerals, and amino acids that could help you look younger.
    2. Skin Hydration: Rice water can function as a natural moisturizer, hydrating and calming the skin. Those with dry or sensitive skin may benefit from it especially.
    3. Reduces Inflammation: Rice water is sometimes used to soothe irritated or inflamed skin. Rice water’s starch may have anti-inflammatory qualities that can help lessen inflammation and redness.
    4. Tightens Pores: It is said that rice water has pore-tightening properties, which may make the skin look smoother and younger. The astringent qualities of rice water are thought to be responsible for this result.
    5. Anti-Aging: The antioxidants in rice water, like vitamin E, may be able to help shield the skin from free radical damage, which can speed up the aging process.
    6. Cleansing and Toning: Rice water can be used as a natural cleanser and toner for the face. The pollutants, extra oil, and makeup residues may be removed, leaving the skin feeling clean and revitalized.
    7. Acne and Blemish Control: Control of Acne and Blemishes: Some people assert that rice water’s potential anti-inflammatory and oil-absorbing capabilities can help lessen the appearance of acne and blemishes.
    8. Soothing Sunburn: Rice water can soothe burnt skin by lowering the skin’s redness and pain.

    While many people find rice water good for their skin, it’s crucial to remember that individual results may vary. Furthermore, there is little scientific research on the precise advantages of rice water for the skin, making these assertions primarily anecdotal.

    It’s crucial to perform a patch test before using rice water on your skin to make sure there won’t be any negative responses. You can soak rice in water, drain the mixture, and then apply the solution to your skin using a cotton ball or pad. After a short period of time, you can rinse it off.

    To notice the possible advantages of any skincare regimen or product, it’s important to follow it consistently. If you have particular skin concerns, it’s also a good idea to speak with a dermatologist for tailored advice.

  • Amazing 1-Year Hair Growth: How I Take Care of My Daughter’s 3a Hair-Type

    Amazing 1-Year Hair Growth: How I Take Care of My Daughter’s 3a Hair-Type

    Hello, fam! So in today’s video, I’ll be showing you how I take care of my daughter’s 3A curly hair type. It had stunted growth for the first five years, after which I shaved it off. However, it grew quite to the same 5-year length in one year and I want to show you some of the things I do/did to achieve this result.

    If you do like this video, please go ahead and give it a 👍, like, share & subscribe!

    Music: Miami

    Musician: Deleted Account

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    Find me online:

    Blog: iamchidaallu.wordpress.com

    Socials: @iamchidaallu

  • Starting Afresh: After Loss, New Business & Rebranding

    Starting Afresh: After Loss, New Business & Rebranding

    Have you ever had to start afresh in life? You know, reboot, or experience a moment that forced you to start all over? I had this experience last year, I have shared how I have been able to go through it and start life afresh in business, dating, my walk with God, etc.
    If you do like this video, please go ahead and give it a , like, share & subscribe!


    Music: Bleach
    Musician: anatu
    URL: https://icons8.com/music/


    Find me online:
    Blog: iamchidaallu.wordpress.com
    Socials: @iamchidaallu